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Selecting the Right Music for Your Wedding

A wedding reception is a time to celebrate the love between you

and your fiancé that will last a lifetime. The perfect way to do

this is through dancing. Dancing lightens the mood and makes for

an enjoyable evening. But remember, to have a successful dance

you need to have the right music. Choose music that you and your

fiancé enjoy and something that the guests will feel comfortable

dancing to.

The music that you play throughout the entire reception, whether

or not you dance, will set the tone of the event. As a rule of

thumb, most couples play soft, slow music at the beginning of

the reception to set a light mood. While guests are eating or

after they have eaten, pick up the tempo. This will encourage

dancing to really start the celebration. When it is time for the

reception to be ending, slow down the music again; this will be

a clue to the guests that it will end soon.

When preparing a playlist, try to compile a variety of music

styles. Since this is your day, include your and your fiancé's

favorite songs. A well-rounded mix will include styles such as

you. Before hiring a DJ, make an appointment to talk with them,...

jazz, classical, oldies, country, swing, and rock and roll.

Review the playlist with the bandleader or DJ. If you are stuck

on what to play, consult the bandleader and DJ. They will have

more experience with weddings and will be able to tell you

popular weddings songs. They might even already have a playlist

that you can review and use if you prefer.

When hiring a DJ, you shouldn't have to worry about the amount

or selection of music he or she has. This is something you might

consider though when hiring a live band. You will need to make

sure that the band can play any type of music that you want

played, although if you are working with a band that is

experienced at playing for weddings, this shouldn't be a huge

problem.

Coordinate with your DJ or live band when you will cut the cake,

throw the bouquet and garter, and dance to the first song. This

way they will know when to stop and start the music. Some DJs

and bandleaders will even double as Master of Ceremonies for

you. Before hiring a DJ, make an appointment to talk with them,

try to listen to them perform somewhere else so you can get an

idea of what they will do at your reception. Also, know what

kind of sound system the DJ uses or if there is already a system

he or she can use at your reception location.

Many couples prefer to hire both a DJ and a live band,

alternating them during the festivities. This will give them

each time to rest and also enjoy the night, although DJs won't

need as many breaks as a live band. Remember to add these

professionals onto the list of who is eating for the caterers;

these people will also need to eat and drink during the

event.

However you decide to do the music at your wedding and

reception, it will make for a great event. Background music sets

a nice tone and encourages guests to mingle and chat. Louder,

faster music will get the dancing started right away. Either

way, you, your loved one, and your guests will have a great

time.

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